Wedding Redo? I Don’t Think So.


redo my wedding

redo my wedding

Question: My husband and I were married a little over a year ago. What was supposed to be my perfect day was ruined.

The ceremony was not what I had pictured. My father-in-law officiated the ceremony and told me he would use “traditional vows”. Instead, he used words such as “obey” and my husband and I didn’t even exchange vows. Then my mother-in-law got upset about decorations at the reception, and when my mother tried to calm her down, she started calling my family and me names. She made a big scene, and I was too upset to continue with the reception. To top it off, my cake fell over. Also, I was 3 months pregnant at the time. We didn’t get to have our first dance, cut our cake, or any of the traditional wedding things. My husband and I want to redo the whole wedding. We just don’t really know how to go about it. My question is how do I word the invitations?? How do I go abou the whole wedding? I hope you can help me! Any advice would help! Thanks!

Rebecca Black, Etiquette Consultant, Etiquette Now

I’m sorry, but you won’t be able to have a second wedding because you are already married. You can have a vow renewal, which is also called a reaffirmation. There is a plethora of information about vow renewals right here on page. Here you should find answers to all of your questions. About your invitations, these would be invitations to a vow renewal ceremony. To find amazing invitations you can see our top list of wedding invitation providers here.

Suggested Posts

If you’re searching for the perfect dress to renew your vows or for your second marriage, look no further. We’ve compiled some beautiful, silky bridal gowns that speak volumes on bridal style and sophisticated beauty. Take a look! Also, be sure to peek at our first roundup of silk dresses here! Silk from head-to-toe with …

0 3.9k
Share
vow renewal save the date

   Vow Renewal Question (from Tanya): Hello! My husband and I are planning a Vow Renewal for our 15th anniversary which will be next November. I wanted to know when is the appropriate time to send out Save The Date Cards. I know its too early to send things out now or tell people, but …

0 6.1k
Share

Second weddings are a chance to try something new and pursue everything that you weren’t able to do at your first wedding. For many, this means hopping on a plane to wed in a romantic location. Destination weddings are a popular choice for second weddings, as there’s often less need to adhere to expectations and …

0 4.4k
Share

We’ve said it before and we’re saying it again, Berta wedding gowns have an almost otherwordly feeling. They’re beyond elegant. They’re beyond beautiful. And each will make a bride feel both sexy and celebratory. Let’s take a peek at 8 of our favorites from the Fall/Winter 2016 Collection!

0 3.7k
Share

Show off your shoulders in one of these simple, sophisticated halter wedding gowns. Perfect for a destination wedding, vow renewal or second walk down the aisle, let’s have a peek at our favorites. via Pinterest

0 5.4k
Share

Watters always have a beautiful array of wedding gowns. They always coincide nicely with the current trends and there seems to be a design for every kind of bride. And that includes those looking for destination styles. Let’s have a look, shall we?

0 3.7k
Share