Things to Avoid When Planning A Wedding


Once you are engaged, planning a wedding is the next natural step and everyone will start offering unsolicited advice. Every blog post that you read will be about what you should or should not do when planning a wedding. Sometimes, when you are bombarded with advice from different sources, it can be hard to make the right choice.

Here are several things that you should definitely avoid when planning your wedding:

Skimping On Food

People who have been married before might try to convince you to skimp on the food because many attendees do not eat. The truth is that the guests will remember the food at your wedding for weeks to come. Therefore, you should go all out in the food department.

If you can afford it, you should make sure that there are several food options. In addition, the menu should have a dish that even the fussiest eater will want to devour.

At the very least, you should offer some hors d’oeuvres or sweet treats. The latter is probably going to be more economical but without looking cheap. Sweet Services for instance offers candy buffet that can match the theme of your wedding. You can definitely stage the extravagance without completely burning  your pocket.

Improvising Your Vows

Many people walk down the aisle without written vows and speak from their hearts. Although this might work well in the movies, it might backfire in real life. Even if you memorize your vows in front of a mirror, you might forget them at the most important time because of nerves.

For this reason, you should write down your vows. You might be so choked up by emotions on your wedding day that speaking from the heart is impossible.

Waiting for Wedding Dress Sales

The longer you wait to purchase your wedding dress, the more difficult it will be to find the right one. You should not wait for a coupon to arrive in the mail or flash sales.

According to azazie.com, a unique online platform on a mission to reinvent the way you shop for special occasion dresses, “you should buy your bridesmaid dresses on time; do not wait for sales. If you wait for too long, making alterations on short notice can be very expensive.” Moreover, there will be additional stress of waiting until the last minute.

No Open Bar

Depending on the size of your crowd, expecting your guests to bring their own beers is a disaster waiting to happen. If you cannot afford an open bar on your big day, you should consider having one for an hour or two. When the time is up, switch to a cash bar to save on some money.

Not Comparing Your Wedding to Others

The best thing that you can do is compare your wedding to others. What do you like about another wedding? Do you want the same thing at your own wedding?

By comparing your wedding to others, you will get more ideas than you would have thought of on your own. Moreover, when you do comparisons, you might decide to change your mind about a few things.

Random Seating Assignments

Although it would be ideal to live in a world where everyone gets along, this is not the reality. Randomizing the seating arrangements at your wedding is a tempting idea that might save on time, but you need to resist the temptation.

If you randomize the seating arrangement, you might end up seating archenemies next to each other, ruining the mood at your wedding. Moreover, it might be awkward to seat your grandmother next to your sorority sisters.

DIY-ing

You might think that doing as much as you can for yourself will save on money, but end up spending more. If you avoid hiring a professional, you might end up botching your DIY project.

Whatever you do, make sure that you stick to your budget when planning your wedding. Running out of cash during the planning process is not only embarrassing but it can also delay the wedding.

 

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