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Father-in-law remarrying second wife.

dmroe2
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Father-in-law remarrying second wife.

My husband's mother married after being widowed for 3 yrs My mother-in law and new father-in-law were married for 14 yrs until her death in Oct. 08. Nine mos. after, my father-in-law met up with his second wife. My father-in-law always told us how this wife took everything he had along with his inheritance. None of the family (his or my husband's) knew of their seeing each other 'till last week when we were all told that they are getting married this weekend. Then he told us that they are selling both houses, so they can start new. His kids don't even want to talk to him because they remember the pain that this women brought into their lives the first time and are so worried it will happen again. The rest of us are hoping he will be happy and it will all work out, but some are worried about him selling "their mother's house" that she lived in for 45 yrs. and that in their will to be divided up between the kids. They are worried that they will never see any of that money. How do I talk to my father-in-law to have him make sure the "kids" get their inheritance of their mother's house after he gets remarried. We live in a community property state.

the_admin
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Re: [dmroe2] Father-in-law remarrying second wife. [In reply to]

This isn't really a wedding issue.

If you would like guidance with regard to the couple getting married, feel welcome to return to post.
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