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chrissi0103
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Catholic renewal ceremony?

My husband and I were married 4 years ago by a notary republic. I am Catholic and would like to go back to my church. I've been away from the faith for a while. Does the church recognize this type of marriage? If not, would I be able to have an actual wedding in the church or just a vow renewal? Thanks!

the_admin
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Re: [chrissi0103] Catholic renewal ceremony? [In reply to]

Go to your local church and speak to the priest. You could have a blessing of the marriage but not really a wedding since you're already married. The blessing offers you the best of both worlds while still looking appropriate to everyone. Just imagine how your guests will perceive a wedding for a couple they already know to be married for 3 years.
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Re: [chrissi0103] Catholic renewal ceremony? [In reply to]

The administrator is absolutely correct. The Catholic Church views your marriage as valid and real, but not sacramental because you, as a Catholic, married outside the Church. As such, an actual wedding ceremony is not in order.

However, having your marriage blessed by the Church is a wonderful plan and after the blessing ceremony, your marriage will then be viewed as sacramental in the eyes of the Church. This can be a strengthening point in your faith. A wedding being blessed is no less a joyous occasion than an actual wedding ceremony!

Please speak to your local priest, who can answer all your questions about the sacrament of marriage and can be a help and support to you as you learn to live out your faith.

May God bless you and guide you.
Kay and Dennis Flowers
Authors of
Catholic Annulment, Spiritual Healing

(This post was edited by the_admin on May 31, 2007, 11:05 AM)