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WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT
Jul 25, 2005, 11:23 AM
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Dear 25th,
Please no! A money tree is viewed very poorly and is not something that should be included in an open house or reception of any kind. Typically for a milestone anniversary party guests will bring gifts, but nothing too expensive or elaborate. These are typically life style gifts. This is a party that you plan for yourselves or your family plans it, so it can never be viewed as a gift giving situation--even though some guest will give.
In fact, because so many guests do want to give something, this is one of the few times that it is appropriate to mention, 'please no gifts' on the invitation. But, we never mention the type of gift. Can you imagine reading: Please bring your wallets because we are including a money tree at our party?"
The one type of party that we could mention something such as this is the surprise anniversary party. If your children were planning a surprise anniversary party for you, they could write something to the affect: We are planning on sending our parents on a cruise. If you would like to contribute we would be very grateful. This way the guest has an option. Plus, this is an indication that gifts are optional, not expected.
Best wishes,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Consultant
Etiquette Now
http://www.etiquettenow.com
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