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jessieweigner
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Jun 21, 2006, 1:34 PM
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10 year vow renewal
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I am planning a 10 year vow renewal. Our first wedding ended abruptly at our reception with a family fued and I have always been depressed about it. Also, we didnt have a lot of money to have the kind of wedding we really wanted, but now we do. We want to have a Civil War themed anniversary party with a vow renewal ceremony. I wanted to do pretty much everything like a wedding except for different type vow, and there would be reception differences. Is it ok to do it that way? I wanted to have attendants like bridesmaids and groomsmen but maybe call them something different. i wouldn't state that gifts weren't needed. We just want to celebrate the reception and beautiful ceremony that we didnt get to have. I would appreciate any advice.
thanks
confused in PA
(This post was edited by the_admin on Jun 21, 2006, 1:40 PM)
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Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT
Jun 21, 2006, 2:29 PM
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Dear Confused,
Please don't plan it to appear as a wedding. This is viewed negatively. Attendants will create this impression, as would a wedding dress. The vow renewal can be very special because it doesn't and isn't supposed to include elements of the wedding. Your friends can play a part. But, they shouldn't be dressed as anything besides guests.
And, you are correct that gifts are not expected.
Please read more about vow renewal etiquette.
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Consultant
Etiquette Now
http://www.etiquettenow.com
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