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Inviting guests to a second and third wedding.

purplesteel
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Inviting guests to a second and third wedding.

This will be my second wedding and his third. I was married in Vegas without family or friends the first time. He doesn't want a huge wedding (only 9 people from his side). My close nearby relatives plus a couple family friends total 26. There is no way for me to cut back. Would this be improper having the attendence so uneven? He doesn't want to invite many people since he has already had two weddings... HELP!

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Re: [purplesteel] Inviting guests to a second and third wedding. [In reply to]

Dear Second Time Around,

This is fine as long as you both are agreeable. There is nothing wrong with more guests on one side than the other. They will be one big group from now on.

Best wishes,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Consultant
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