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richie328is
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Marriage just on paper

Hello, a few years ago I was married on paper alone...no ceremony or anything of that nature, just legalities. I then became divorced some time later. I am now wondering if it is possible for me to get married in a catholic church to my catholic fiance. I have been a protestant my entire life but dont mind getting baptized catholic or switching to the catholic faith for her. Thank you I appreciate any responces

Richie

RevSusanna
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Re: [richie328is] Marriage just on paper [In reply to]

Your marriage was not sanctioned by the Catholic Church and therefore not recognized by them. So the good news is that I believe you can, if you convert to Catholicism.

However, the best way is to call your fiance's pastor and find out.

One piece of advice, if he says no (though I don't think they will), check with a couple of more pastors. Don't rely on one pastor. I do personally know folks who were in your situation and married in the Catholic Church. Sometimes it depends on the priest.

Blessings,

Rev. Susanna Stefanachi Macomb
Reverend Susanna
Joining Hands and Hearts: Interfaith, Intercultural Wedding Celebrations : A Practical Guide for Couples

richie328is
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Re: [RevSusanna] Marriage just on paper [In reply to]

Thanks an awful lot RevSusanna. This is an excellent forum....Extremely helpful I have so much appreciation for the reply

Thanks again

Richie

RevSusanna
INTERFAITH MINISTER & AUTHOR / Moderator

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Re: [richie328is] Marriage just on paper [In reply to]

You are most welcome.

May angels herald your wedding day!

Rev. Susanna
Reverend Susanna
Joining Hands and Hearts: Interfaith, Intercultural Wedding Celebrations : A Practical Guide for Couples

Deacon Bob
INDEPENDANT CATHOLIC DEACON

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Re: [RevSusanna] Marriage just on paper [In reply to]

I agree with Rev. Suzanne that the Catholic Church will not recongnize your previous marriage so that should not be an impediment. There is more good news --- you will not be required to convert unless you wanted to. The Catholic Church has long recongnized mixed marriages between Catholics and Baptized Christians. Your Catholic finance' will need to reaffirm his faith and promise to share it with his children. Best wishes to you and may you have a blessed life together.
Deacon Bob Tousey
Independant catholic Deacon

RevSusanna
INTERFAITH MINISTER & AUTHOR / Moderator

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Re: [Deacon Bob] Marriage just on paper [In reply to]

Deacon Bob is absolutely correct.

One question: Have you been baptized?

Rev. Susanna
Reverend Susanna
Joining Hands and Hearts: Interfaith, Intercultural Wedding Celebrations : A Practical Guide for Couples