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How to chnage my last name after a second marriage

kendra
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How to chnage my last name after a second marriage

I am getting married on the 27th of August for the 2nd time. I have 3 kids from my previous marriage (ages 9-13) who all have the same last name as me (after I divorced, I kept the same last name, which was my married name). My fiance and I have a daughter who has his last name (she is only 2). In speaking with the older kids, they expressed concern that I will not have their last name once I remarry.

My question is, would it be acceptable to keep my current last name (which I have had for 14 years & is my previous husbands name) and hyphenate it with my future husbands last name (which is also my youngest daughter's)?

I got the idea from my fiance's ex-wife (she did this when she remarried for his kid's sake).

P.S. Not that it makes a lot of difference, but everyone gets a long well on all sides.

Thank you, Kendra

(This post was edited by the_admin on Apr 23, 2007, 3:52 PM)

the_admin
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Post #2 of 2 (3690 views)

Re: [kendra] Question about last name [In reply to]

Hello Kendra:

Hyphenating the two names is a fine idea and something many second time brides do when they have children. As long as your future husband is approving I see no reason why this couldn't work for you.

Be sure this is the name on your marriage license.

Try this New Bride's Name Change Kit

Good Luck to You and Your New Family,
I Do - Take Two Moderator

(This post was edited by the_admin on Apr 23, 2007, 3:50 PM)