[sheryl99]

This will be my 1st time getting married and his 2nd time. He as two daughters 20 and 15 and I have one age 5. We have been together 13 years and so we are all very close. My older brother will be walking me down to give me away. We already have a Best Man and Maid of Honor. The flower girl will be my daughter and the ring bearer will my best friend's little boy. I was thinking his daughters should be the flower girls but maybe the 20 year old may no longer be the age for that? Any suggestions will help[unsure]

[the_admin]

You already have your daughter as the flower girl, which is age appropriate. Age 7 is typically the ct off for the flower girl role. The older girls can be junior bridesmaid (15 year old) and bridesmaid (20 year old), depending on the formality of the wedding and number of guests.

[sheryl99]

Thanks for the suggestions. I didn't even know the cut off age for the flower girls. I'm trying to keep the wedding party small and the number of participants to an even number. The guest count would be 30 max, just immediate family and not much room for friends except my bestfriend who I grew up with who will be the Maid of Honor. So by adding his daughters as Junior and Bridesmaid, wouldn't I have to add 2 more? For example a groomsmen for each of them???? Sorry this is all new for me

[the_admin]

Not a problem. That's what we're here for! The sides do not have to match up. If this is a very informal wedding, which is how it sounds, you won't need that many attendants. Let the maid of honor be escorted by the best man and the two bridesmaids can escort each other.

Hope our website helps fill in those blanks for you!

[Etiquette Now]

Great advice. This will work out perfectly.