[KathyHR]

I have a question I've not seen addressed anywhere. I am currently in a marriage that has grounds for annulment. I am interested in having it annulled, even though we are not divorced (we are currently living under the same roof, but as "brother and sister," not husband and wife). The reason I would seek an annulment now is that, if we do divorce, it will save time by having the annulment already complete (I would seek one after divorce otherwise). And, if we choose to remain together, it will only be under the condition that we remarry in the Church anyway, so annulment would be reasonable in order to "wipe out" the previous, flawed relationship and start afresh. (Also, we would go through premarital counseling like any other engaged couple.)

It APPEARS to me that annulment is only granted following a divorce, but I'm not sure if this is the case. And if it is, I don't understand WHY, since the Church considers herself the true judge of marital validity, not the state anyway.

I'd appreciate any input on this that can be offered.

[the_admin]

The reason you don't see any questions or answers on this subject is because we only deal with annulment questions as they pertain to getting married again. I would suggest contacting the priest at your local diocese as he would be the best person to give you accurate and specific advice for your particular situation. He can also serve to guide you through the process.

I wish you the best through this difficult time,