[mineralmom]

I am 43 and getting married for the second time, his first, and haven't got a clue as to what I should wear or what is accepable to wear. I just went through an annulment and having a Catholic ceremony. We have a lot of friends, family and patients who would all like to be there. I also have three children 16, 13, & 10. I would appreciate any suggestions as I am totally lost. We have been dating for three years and not made one single plan since we got engaged a year ago. The annulment went through last week. Thanks!

[the_admin]

Congratulations on your engagement.

Can you tell us a little more about your wedding such as the level of formality, time of day, venue, etc?

Having this information will help us offer you the best advice for your situation.

[mineralmom]

The wedding will be in July at the Catholic Church. That is the latest time available in the archdiocese. Formality? Uncertain. Only one attendant each. Thank you.

[Etiquette Now]

Dear Mineralmom,

You may wear anything you wish according to the formality of your event as long as it is conservative--no blusher veils.

Best wishes,