[pabride]

I am engaged to a wonderful man who is divorced. Since I have never been married, is it still appropriate to have a big wedding?

He has told me that the wedding is for me, he would be happy with a small informal ceremony, but wants me to be happy.

He was only married once before and the reason for his divorce is because his ex-wife was unfaithful to him. Honestly, I would feel kind of cheated if I can't have my dream wedding all because the man I chose to marry is divorced due to the actions of his ex-wife.

[the_admin]

As long as the two of you agree on the kind of wedding you'll plan, it's fine. After all, it's your first wedding and the first wedding for the two of you as a couple. []