[palmetto]

What are the rules for re-using the ring from my first marriage? I know that sounds bad, but it was expensive and I still like it more than the rings I have seen at the jewelry store. I'm over the first guy and definitely not holding on to it for sentimental reasons. My fiance is willing to buy me a new ring, but frankly, I'd rather use that $4,000 on our new house or furniture. I think the only people that would notice it's the same one would be my ex (if I ever see him) or my 3 co-workers. What should I do?

[the_admin]

Have you discussed this with your groom? I'll bet he has some feelings about using a ring from another man. Sell the old ring and put the money toward your new home. Let your groom buy you the ring he wants you to have.

[Etiquette Now]

Traditionally it is viewed in poor taste. In the etiquette world it is as well. And, a ring is a symbol of your continuing love. So, it really means something. Decide wisely.