My husband and I were married in 2002 and had a pretty big wedding. We have spent more time apart then together. The first year of marraige seemed like we had made a mistake but we are now usre that we didn't. My husband just left for the army in November to try to get his together and make a better life for this family. We have been through 2 miscarriages, a serious illness and a leave for the army. My husband will spend the next year in Korea alone and will return to the states with a new destination. We would like to renew our vows. Is that proper etiquette? We would like to have a ceremony and reception again, but this time keep it a little smaller. Does this sound like proper etiquette?